I was reading an article review of a book of someone who was in a cult. It looks to be a pretty amazing story and I thought it was wonderful how they summarized the lightbulb moment when true freedom came for them.
(paraphrase) "After ages of conformity to another's ideas, I discovered self-determinism. Now I revel in my own unique and wonderful view of the universe. I have been opened to being able to change my mind whenever the evidence against my beliefs or attitudes becomes overwhelming."
I think for normal people, you have to be open to hear, unaffected, all different sides arguments on the matter. Whereas a good cult member will never tolerate anything but their belief and probably argue it to there shrinking perilous world. But, I've no experience in cults, so if I met one who was happy, and wasn't upset that someone didn't believe what they believe, I'd be live and let live.
(paraphrase) "After ages of conformity to another's ideas, I discovered self-determinism. Now I revel in my own unique and wonderful view of the universe. I have been opened to being able to change my mind whenever the evidence against my beliefs or attitudes becomes overwhelming."
I think for normal people, you have to be open to hear, unaffected, all different sides arguments on the matter. Whereas a good cult member will never tolerate anything but their belief and probably argue it to there shrinking perilous world. But, I've no experience in cults, so if I met one who was happy, and wasn't upset that someone didn't believe what they believe, I'd be live and let live.