Musley
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I'll back up that request, it's all too confusing, almost makes me want to give up on love and I'm only 18
It doesn't get any easier, I'm now in my forties and am still not sure
I'll back up that request, it's all too confusing, almost makes me want to give up on love and I'm only 18
your only 18 com'on live a little you sound like your 35...these are your best years...
It doesn't get any easier, I'm now in my forties and am still not sure
I know, could someone please explain the differece between lust, infatuation, obsession and love. 'Cos I'm confused
I'll back up that request, it's all too confusing, almost makes me want to give up on love and I'm only 18
My trusty sidekick The Dictionary tells me this:
Infatuate: to inspire with powerful but short-lived feelings of love and desire.
Love: 1a(1) strong affection for another <maternal love for a child> (2) attraction based on sexual desire; strong affection and tenderness felt by lovers. b an assurance of love <give her my love>
Lust: strong sexual desire, esp. as opposed to love.
Obsession: a persistant (disturbing) preoccupation with an often unreasonable idea; also an idea causing such a preoccupation.
My trusty sidekick The Dictionary tells me this:
Infatuate: to inspire with powerful but short-lived feelings of love and desire.
Love: 1a(1) strong affection for another <maternal love for a child> (2) attraction based on sexual desire; strong affection and tenderness felt by lovers. b an assurance of love <give her my love>
Lust: strong sexual desire, esp. as opposed to love.
Obsession: a persistant (disturbing) preoccupation with an often unreasonable idea; also an idea causing such a preoccupation.
I think I feel all those things! (except the maternal one ) So, I don't know what feeling mine is, damn cupid!
Thanks for the help though
One of my favorite bands of the 60s LOVE
the difference between lust and love for me is a few things, lust is simply want to f*** someone,say a one night stand, love goes far beyond that, if you meet the right someone that you can do anything with them , sit at home, have a pint,go on an adventure,go shopping for groceries, whatever, and time seems to just stand still.
just a loving glance from them,maybe a smile and it makes your day, that is love.
Has anyone on here ever been in love?
I have, once. My story is complicated and I never was fully "with her" so I'm unsure if that qualifies as me actually being in love. But it's the closest I've been to having Cupid's arrows shot at me.
But yeah, this topic was inspired by me seeing her for the first time in ages yesterday.
the difference between lust and love for me is a few things, lust is simply want to f*** someone,say a one night stand, love goes far beyond that, if you meet the right someone that you can do anything with them , sit at home, have a pint,go on an adventure,go shopping for groceries, whatever, and time seems to just stand still.
just a loving glance from them,maybe a smile and it makes your day, that is love.
I'm just so glad to grow older
to move away from those darker years
I'm in love for the first time
and I don't feel bad
so wish me luck my friends
goodbye
... love goes far beyond that, if you meet the right someone that you can do anything with them , sit at home, have a pint,go on an adventure,go shopping for groceries, whatever, and time seems to just stand still.
just a loving glance from them,maybe a smile and it makes your day, that is love.
You know, just the other day I was thinking that I will probably never know anyone as well as and will never be as close to anyone as to my husband. And this feeling was incredibly comforting.
^^^
seriously guys, cut it out. you're making me vom.
bwuahahahahaaaa!! nugz, I can always count on you... The voice of reason.
I was thinking I should finally check out this "love thread" (with nothing to add ) then I see your post. Good timing
I try to always bring things back down to reality.