i've actually thought of that. a dominatrix is one of those things like ballerina or opera singer that I secretly wish I could be. I don't want to sit on people's faces though.Instead of looking for an old man to live with out of desperation make a plan where you can have your own money. If you are willing to give handjobs to old men you don't have to do that to sleep in the spare room and be at their mercy all the time. Be a dominatrix or something. You could charge hundreds of dollars per session and you don't have to have sex with them, technically. Then you pay your own rent and don't have housemates. You're thinking too small.