Mozzy1 i am really surprised you have nothing to say in response to the lengthy post i made for your benefit. Did none of it seem at all useful or did i waste my time?
Mozzy1 i am really surprised you have nothing to say in response to the lengthy post i made for your benefit. Did none of it seem at all useful or did i waste my time?
Sadly Mozzy1 has a habit that she just forgets what she asked before, does not take sincere advice from genuinely nice people like you.
http://forums.morrissey-solo.com/showthread.php?t=91223#3
EPbabe,
Hi, I didn't add you b/c I didn't think you would've accepted me b/c it seems people all have this other type of opinion of me. So, I only added people to my account that seemed that they didn't. No offense to you, this is what I felt in my mind on why I didn't add certain people. I understand exactly now where you're coming from & I hope you're cool w/ me about it. OK?
Pauly, don't take it to heart. Mozzy1 with this and previous usernames has been given the same advice again and again. It does get tiresome and that is why many people here don't take it seriously or bother again.
yup its a shame. never mind, i enjoyed writing it all out - it was good therapy to relieve the tension caused by reading the same thread over and over again!
I thought it was good of you to make the effort, and everything you said was spot on. Which, as previously mentioned, is probably why you didn't get a reply.
Paulc, I know why Mozzy1 didn't reply to you: Cause everything that you said rings truehooohooohooo, oh hoo hoo.........
No offence taken.
But i find your response a little bizarre.
This is an internet forum which you spend alot of time on and you post alot of threads and posts. Your writings are the only way to get to know you short of meeting up. The point of an internet forum is to make these threads and posts. It is not necessarily a precursor to meeting up.
So i based my honest and well meaning advice on what you have written in great detail and repeated ad nauseum on here. Are you saying you arent going to take any of it on board. Not even the really practical stuff?
No offense to you PaulC or anyone but, I didn't reply b/c seriously, thanks for your thoughts but, none of you really know me "that" well to form a judgement or opinion on how I am outside of a computer.
What kind of stinks is how people do formulate these types of thoughts based upon posts/threads.
Some people do know me outside of here though but, I'm keeping their names confidential as they do know me as their real friend.
However, like I've posted all-in-all before, if anyone wants to be friends or post on my profile, I've kept the invitation open.
If I'm honest I guess, I didn't add A LOT of members here b/c since being a member since 1999 & my PERSONAL information posted & how I've been so talked-trash about (w/out ANYONE defending me as a friend yet, I've defended a lot of people here/there), it's just very, very, very hard to trust people & know/realize if they're genuine or not....
I hope you all can formally understand my position now. I'm not going to write how you can understand me as a person b/c unless we've hung out or talked on the phone, mailed, etc., IRL, a real opinion/position can't be formulated.
Furthermore, anyone interested though, in sincerely being friends, feel free, we can talk, PM, get to know one another & see where life takes us. This is an opening to a positive realm here.
Cheers.
I tried to be cool and say hello to you the other night and you left the chatroom saying that "I can see some people are more POPULAR in here"
Misconceptions: I repeat:
I want the record to show, that I do NOT respond to trolls. It only feeds them. They could call me very mother a dirty rotten whatever and I would still remain mute.
It was definitely Mozzy1 that made the popular statement and then left in a huff. (excat words were "I'll get my coat"?)
Are you saying that comment was or was not directed at me?
So if no one really knows you to make judgement or opinion why do constantly make these threads to ask for help with your love life?
why, when questioned or criticised about your threads you come out with 'you don't me'! You are like a broken record. No body pretends or says that they know you, they just form a opinion on what you post and then reply to you. Paulc & even Arsenal gave very constructive advice, but as it wasn't so sugar sweet, you don't like it.
All do post is self pitying, self absorbed prattling that is just annoying after the umpteenth thread. your above post is a perfect example.
When you receive PM's from people here, how do you know that their intentions are good?
When someone gives you a compliment, how do you know it's not a joke for them to tear you apart later on?
How do you even know that the person you're talking to isn't a cop, a child, a killer, a psycho, a stalker, etc?
What if someone seems "real" but, your gift of intuition tells you otherwise?
Have you ever made REAL & TRUE friendships/or more/relationships from people that have taken the risk to PM you? What happened?