Tuesday, I was talking to my daughter in the morning before school. I was complimenting her on her hair as she had twisted and wrapped it to look so beautiful. She looked at me, as if not requiring the accolade for satisfaction. She has wonderfully wavy hair and it hangs with such effortless curvy wisps.
I asked her, "sometimes people who have wavy hair want straight hair and vice versa, people with straight hair may want curly full hair, what do you want?". She told me she likes her wavy hair. I think that is just perfect.
I thought about what I want and how it is manifested in the busyness of my daily life. I contend that each life and my life is not easy. We are built through experience to withstand the challenges we place before us. Some are easily manageable and others require a curation that with attention seem surmountable.
I tackle what I think I have the mental tolerance for. Sometimes I stretch it, sometimes I short stroke it for the easy win. More often than not I am pushing it to see if I can move the goalpost. What life deals, quickly shows me when I have stretched it to far.
I have wavy hair, that has really only shown itself a couple of times in my adult life. I like my wavy hair. But I don't like the work to keep it under control, so I keep it short. So in essence, I think I "psychologically save me", is to just keep my hair short. This is how I move things off the plate to have room to make more important things occupy my time
It should be noted that I change my hairstyle all the time.
I asked her, "sometimes people who have wavy hair want straight hair and vice versa, people with straight hair may want curly full hair, what do you want?". She told me she likes her wavy hair. I think that is just perfect.
I thought about what I want and how it is manifested in the busyness of my daily life. I contend that each life and my life is not easy. We are built through experience to withstand the challenges we place before us. Some are easily manageable and others require a curation that with attention seem surmountable.
I tackle what I think I have the mental tolerance for. Sometimes I stretch it, sometimes I short stroke it for the easy win. More often than not I am pushing it to see if I can move the goalpost. What life deals, quickly shows me when I have stretched it to far.
I have wavy hair, that has really only shown itself a couple of times in my adult life. I like my wavy hair. But I don't like the work to keep it under control, so I keep it short. So in essence, I think I "psychologically save me", is to just keep my hair short. This is how I move things off the plate to have room to make more important things occupy my time
It should be noted that I change my hairstyle all the time.
