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CG, stop. Now my sexperimentation this weekend won't be as much fun. I'm going to have to worry about the impact of the quality of my orgasms on the world at large. If they're explosively good, am I contributing to terrorism? If they're weak, am I helping the Republican party? Or vice versa?

What's a girl to do?

Why do you talk about the Republican Party and terrorism as if they're two different things? Wait a year or two. :rolleyes:
 
In all seriousness you are probably right. I have some problems defining with your definition of what's "real" and "not real" about abusing yourself for an O or two-- if Kleenex is involved afterwards, it was real enough-- but I would be the last person on Earth to deny a connection between the increase of masturbation and the blight of McMansions. Our society is drowning in the middle of a sticky lake fed by many rivers of onanism coming (wink) from one source or another. Those of us who know people who live in McMansions know that they are simply fortresses to protect their owners from the hell of other people.

Except that those people are the hell I want to be protected from.

Did you see that new Depeche Mode video, for "Hole To Feed"? It was linked to (and panned) in the "Other Music" thread. It's about exactly this, the over-consumption and over-sexualization in our society. It's about as subtle as a grand piano falling from a fourth-story window, but that's what it's about.

Porn is harmful to us, not because it inspires people to have mindless, no-strings-attached sex, but because it devalues sex and normalizes mindless, no-strings-attached sex. Such a powerful physical and emotional experience shouldn't be tossed off (heh) so lightly.
 
CG, stop. Now my sexperimentation this weekend won't be as much fun. I'm going to have to worry about the impact of the quality of my orgasms on the world at large. If they're explosively good, am I contributing to terrorism? If they're weak, am I helping the Republican party? Or vice versa?

What's a girl to do?

Trust me, if while you're exploding you're loving your imaginary lover (WORM, I FULLY ENDORSE AND SUPPORT MASTURBATION) then your Orgasmic Footprint will not hurt anyone, it won't lead to terrorism. You'll be fine, explode away. ;)
 
Except that those people are the hell I want to be protected from.

Did you see that new Depeche Mode video, for "Hole To Feed"? It was linked to (and panned) in the "Other Music" thread. It's about exactly this, the over-consumption and over-sexualization in our society. It's about as subtle as a grand piano falling from a fourth-story window, but that's what it's about.

Porn is harmful to us, not because it inspires people to have mindless, no-strings-attached sex, but because it devalues sex and normalizes mindless, no-strings-attached sex. Such a powerful physical and emotional experience shouldn't be tossed off (heh) so lightly.

This is a good angle, let's steer away from my symbolic shit and focus on this.
 
Porn is harmful to us, not because it inspires people to have mindless, no-strings-attached sex, but because it devalues sex and normalizes mindless, no-strings-attached sex. Such a powerful physical and emotional experience shouldn't be tossed off (heh) so lightly.

Or by completely killing off the last shreds of biological imperative and social conditioning attached to it, no-strings sex becomes a Utopian act of liberation.

The tiny Devil on my shoulder said this. He looks a little like Ron Jeremy. I wouldn't trust him.
 
The tiny Devil on my shoulder said this. He looks a little like Ron Jeremy. I wouldn't trust him.

That's funny because I recenty saw a documentary on Satan on the History Channel that suggested he was a tri-pod. :p
 
I'll just put it here because it's my thread and nobodys reading it anyway, but I've always wondered about Morrissey and his mom. If my theory is correct and he's different, similar to the way I am talking to God and all, does she know? Does she humor it? Or does she do what my mom does and only acknowledge it in a special way? I mena if he's different, she would or perhaps his father would have to be similarly different. In my case my mom exhibits what normal people percieve as schizophrenia, but she's highly functioning. For instance my whole life she'd dip into this voice that talked about "unions" and "marriage" and "sacredness" and all this weird stuff I didn't get at the time, then I was removed from her presense, educated about the occult and her ramblings made more sense, but then she stopped rambling about it once I started working on it. Every year as a kid growing up she'd give me a piece of luggage because I was "going to go on a journey.. To where mom? You're acting nuts again. :straightface: But today, I'll call her and ask how her day was and she'll explaim it was WONDERFUL and when I ask why, she'll say, "Oh nevermind." like she's in on a secret and won't tell me. Or she'll say when I lament that I'm wasting my time housesitting and talking on message boards to people hoping they're getting what I'm saying "Oh, it'll be over soon." To most people this would sound ominous, but when you've grown up with my mom, it's just her prophesizing. She KNEW I was living in hell with Evan, yet she enabled it because I think she knew he was teaching me (without him even really knowing it) how to be a Mary Magdalene. Like sometimes I wonder if maybe she was destined to be her, but just didn't have the resources to figure out the code, because she used to say things similar, that blue cars and different than red cars, part of this code I've nailed, but way back in the 80's when I was a kid. And she was hospitalized once, I think she tried to take her life, then my dad swept in, took her out of Los Angeles and back to Pennsylvania where I was accidently born and maybe, her role in this fell into place. That's why I always cry when I hear the end of Hand That Rocked the Cradle, it's like God assuring me through Morrissey that he did the best he could for my mom. I lose it, because he did, she's a pistol. My key to her house is DEFIANT. My key to my dad's house is KWIKSET. My key to this house is AXXESS. So today she's a house cleaner at almost 70 and buys lots of clothes she never wears. When I ask her to clean out some of the closet, because we have to share, she refuses because she's determined that some day, she's going to have an occassion to wear all those pretty clothes, she just knows it.

Anyway, I wonder if MOrrissey has experienced similar situations and he's basically alone in this like me, or does his mom know that he's special. I mean we're all special and my mom knows I'm specialbut she doesn't know the conclusions I'm drawing and how she fits into these paradigms and whatnot, and to tell her would probably just frustrate her, but if she had an occassion to wear her pretty clothes, I'd be the happiest daughter ever.
 
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I'll ask her about seeing signs and secret languages and she doesn't deny it, she just says she doesn't want to talk about it. :o
 
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Doooooooooo iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit! Doit, doit, doit, doit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Yeah, I know. :( Thanks for pointing that out, I'd never given it ANY THOUGHT EVER WHATSOEVER. :tears::p

Oh wait, are you saying "=/=" means doesn't equal? How would he fulfill his needs then?

Bisexual just means that you can fall in love or be sexually attracted to both sexes. Being poly is when you need or want to have more than one partner.

I'm actually fascinated by your theory... I'm not religious in a normal sense, but I get the kind of orgasm-karma you're talking about. Thing is, can it be any kind of loving sex? What does the orgasm theory say about kink?
 
Bisexual just means that you can fall in love or be sexually attracted to both sexes. Being poly is when you need or want to have more than one partner.

I'm actually fascinated by your theory... I'm not religious in a normal sense, but I get the kind of orgasm-karma you're talking about. Thing is, can it be any kind of loving sex? What does the orgasm theory say about kink?

It could be any loving sex. Both people have to feel safe and loved, and if they're into kink yet feel safe and loved, it counts.
 
However, to produce a positive karmic effect of a kinky situation that involves domination, you'd really have to focus EXTRA hard on not only being dominating, but dominating with love, so it's a tricky act that should only be performed by people who can control those range of emotions with accuracy, otherwise, the domination part might overrule the love part and the effect not so positive. But if you mastered it, you might have more of an impact, say for example, by dominating someone while loving them, elsewhere a prison guard has a spark of empathy that relieves a prisoners pain somehow.
 
Case in point: NRitH called this guy an asshole, which he is, or which was used unlovingly. :rolleyes: (You guys must be laughing your asses off.) Seriously though? I theorize it's a domination spark gone bad.

Pa. Teen duct tapes cat.
 
However, to produce a positive karmic effect of a kinky situation that involves domination, you'd really have to focus EXTRA hard on not only being dominating, but dominating with love, so it's a tricky act that should only be performed by people who can control those range of emotions with accuracy, otherwise, the domination part might overrule the love part and the effect not so positive. But if you mastered it, you might have more of an impact, say for example, by dominating someone while loving them, elsewhere a prison guard has a spark of empathy that relieves a prisoners pain somehow.

So you'd have to focus on the love while in the act? It all varies within the scene but the fact is, obviously, that it's just a sex game. If you're with someone you love and you treat them cruelly because you both enjoy it, does that still count? If you get really into it during and just focus on the kink and the sex, but still love them, will it work?

I don't know if I'm explaining properly...
 
So you'd have to focus on the love while in the act? It all varies within the scene but the fact is, obviously, that it's just a sex game. If you're with someone you love and you treat them cruelly because you both enjoy it, does that still count? If you get really into it during and just focus on the kink and the sex, but still love them, will it work?

I don't know if I'm explaining properly...


No, it doesn't work if you just know you love each other. You have to tell them in your mind while climaxing that you do. It takes a lot of control. You can play domination leading up to it and roleplay dangerousness (that's why we love rolercoasters right? The thrill of being in harms way, but not really) but the moment you start to climax, you have to switch into "I'm loving you" if at least in your brain. If your whipping your mate and start to tell him you love him, I imagine it takes away from the game, but if you want it to contribute positive karmic vibes, in your head, you have to love him. It's kinda like sex for smart people, it takes practice and discipline when doing it in an atmosphere of negativity, but it can be done.
 
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