What I find difficult at the moment, is the fact that people pigeon-hole you immediately after they have found out about your vaccination status. And beware, if your own decision is different to theirs, then you have to deal with negative projections, derision (What a fool you are!) or even scapegoating. No matter what side you are on. It's enough to have a different opinion, and not much else needs to be known. We all have turned into cartoon characters.
The problem is that with the vaccination question you only seem to have a yes/no-option, just like with political referenda in direct democracies.
But unlike democratic elections or referenda, with regard to your own body, it seems, your decision is not allowed to be kept private and secret.
People will pester you again and again with their inquiries concerning your vaccination status in the most obstrusive and encroaching way to squeeze this little information out of you, and then to either congratulate you on your great decision or ridicule and critisize you openly or behind your back in a harsh way. There are even some people who feel assigned to lead an inquisition to find out if you are a true believer or a heretic.
I must say that I do not feel at home with both sides. In my eyes, people who trust the governments and the "gods in white coats" without asking any further questions, and feel that the community's well-being is more important than the individual's decision, are naive. Beauraucracy does not care about the single human being, only about numbers. And if 50 people out of 1 mio die as a consequence of the vaccination, then this is the proof that the vaccination has more benefits than risks.
And the other side, especially here in central Europe I would say, wants to protect the family unit from the state's intervention. And as long as they, usually privileged white males, are the head of their families, they see the state as a rival who actually should shut up and do their work like any other paid servant maid or farm hand. There is something deeply feudalistic in their behaviour. These folks whose values are deeply conservative (you are worth nothing without your family) fear to be dispossessed and devoured by the bigger political entity.
I prefer to be a free agent in my own spaceship.