Yes, we know you are confused. And confusing. I have no clue what you mean, as usual.
The handjob comment, that I was referring to, was the one you made about Morrissey. Tell me what this has to do with Skylarker?
It was her lame attempt at humor. There's nothing confusing about her.
She doesn't have any friends here. That's the thing. That's why she acts like she does. I can't imagine her real life is much different.
You've been here a long time but I've only known you a relatively short period and you haven't really interacted with the forums regularly until relatively recently (except for a long time ago.)
The thing with her is, she's tried to befriend many of us. She used to send me very amicable letters and even asked me to be on her FB at some point. She's lonely. Her letters were innocuous so it didn't bother me that much. At times I even felt guilty for being a prick to her. It took me awhile to fully realize what she is...
She's sneaky and deceptive and manipulative; albeit harmless when you really think about it. There's a comment she made awhile back, archived somewhere and I don't care enough to find it, where she threatened to post all my PMs and old posts I'd deleted, stuff like that,
which she'd actually claimed she'd saved...all because I'd told her to calm down about some bitchrant she was going on. She flipped out and threatened me. She's a creep.
Just like when she befriended NHNS and Viva when they were in town...then later told everyone here a bunch of made-up bullshit about them, using the common knowledge of her visit with them as leverage. Ancient history so it's redundant to go into but just an example of her M.O.
It's hard to really know anyone as they actually are when your only contact with them is internet related; for that reason I think that lots of us here, if not online in general, have periods where we go back and forth with each other, both ends of the spectrum...trusting then not trusting, despising then liking then back to despising...sometimes feeling in tune with others, then not at all, then back again. It takes awhile to really feel people out when you only know them online. I think it's best to take the whole thing with a grain of salt, for the most part. Enjoy the interaction, form friendships if you feel safe in doing so, but don't get hung up on anything, for good or bad.
But yeah I can safely say, after a lot of time and going back and forth in my head, that she is -truly- a deceptive, bitter, hostile piece of shit.
There are some really good people on this site.
She ain't one of 'em.
