A successful ballerina or an opera singer actually requires some innate talent and good genes. It would be like me saying I wish I could be a professional basketball player. Doesn’t matter how much I would want to or how hard I practiced, it would never, ever happen. But dominatrix on the other hand, that’s something I think one could train for. And as you’re the one in charge, you would be calling the shots. No need to sit on anything. Maybe don’t dismiss this one so fast. I bet you can be as degrading as you want to be. And from what I’ve seen, I think you’d enjoy it.